Dealing with Depression in 2017

I’ve always been someone who has looked forward to putting on makeup in the morning. I am the girl who is late for class because she spent too much trying to perfect her eyeliner. I enjoyed putting my makeup on. Who would have thought this very well dressed makeup addict and fan of all things pink and sparkly, would be struggling to wake up in the morning, let alone put her makeup on?

I’ve been struggling with depression for a while now. I started taking antidepressants last year, but I know I’ve been depressed for a lot longer. Depression runs in my family, but my mom was still very unhappy to hear that the doctor prescribed me antidepressants.

Every time I would take my medicine she would say, “Why do you need antidepressants? You have such an amazing life?”

I do have an amazing life and I’m thankful for everything that I have, but I’m unhappy. You can’t live a fulfilling life if you’re unhappy.

There are so many things I don’t understand about having depression. I didn’t understand why I wanted to be in bed all day, every day.  I didn’t understand why I stopped caring about everything that was important to me. I stopped going to class and it became very difficult for me to hand in my assignments on time.  I lost my hustle.

This year depression took over my life and because of that, I lost my confidence. I lost the confidence in my abilities and the motivation to strive towards my goals.  I hit rock bottom and I didn’t tell anyone. I kept everything to myself and I stopped taking care of myself.

As 2018 is approaching I’m hoping to make a change. I want to feel motivated again in working towards my goals, I want to travel, and I want to start enjoying my life again. I’m scared of the new year because I don’t want a repeat of what happened in 2017,  I want to be strong.  I want to dedicate the new year to take the time to cope with depression, but most of all I just want to be confident in myself again. I want to feel like myself again.

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